Embrace the Journey: Don't Be Afraid to Be Seen Trying

 In this fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in the fear of judgment. There also is an image being portrayed by social media that everyone is successful, which in some cases isn't even true but leaves you feeling like you're not doing enough or you're late. But here's the thing – the magic happens when you push past that fear and embrace the journey of trying.

The Fear of the Unknown

We get it. The unknown can be downright intimidating. Whether it's learning a new skill, starting a fitness routine, or stepping into a completely unfamiliar field, that fear of the unknown can be paralyzing. But guess what? That uncertainty is the gateway to growth and self-discovery.

Let Go of Perfection 

Spoiler alert: No one is perfect. Not even that person you admire on social media who seems to have it all together. The truth is, every expert was once a beginner, and they got where they are by being unafraid to stumble, fall, and then get back up again.

Let go of the need for perfection, and give yourself the grace to be a work in progress. Remember, it's not about being flawless; it's about being resilient.

The Power of Vulnerability 

Being seen trying is not a sign of weakness; it's a testament to your courage. When you let yourself be vulnerable and open to the possibility of failure, you open the door to incredible opportunities and connections. Others will see your authenticity and may even be inspired to take their own leaps of faith. I am fortunate enough to have seen it from people we grew up with. The likes of Asbonge Nzama who is now an incredible event planner and Sambulo Ncube(21) who is an SA Rowing Champion and a business owner. I know you know one, that one tangible representation of a dream realized and if not, maybe you could become one!

Celebrate the Small Wins 

Progress is progress, no matter how small. Every step forward is a victory worth celebrating. Whether it's mastering a new chord on the guitar, completing a challenging workout, or simply trying a new recipe – acknowledge and celebrate those small wins. They add up, paving the way for more significant achievements.

It's About the Journey, Not the Destination 

Life is a journey, not a destination. So, don't be in such a hurry to reach the end that you forget to enjoy the ride. Embrace the messy, imperfect, and beautiful process of trying. That's where the real magic happens.

This new year, don't let fear or embarrassment hold you back. Be seen trying, stumbling, and learning because that's where growth and success reside. 

So, let's dive into the unknown together, unapologetically, and make every attempt a victory in its own right. After all, the journey is what makes life truly extraordinary. 🌟


Happy New Year! 

Love 

B.

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