The Busy Brain Blog

 -the stuff of novels, songs, and tear-stained pillows. When a relationship crumbles, it can feel like the world is ending. The memories, the shared dreams, the laughter – they all seem to mock us in the aftermath of a breakup.  Friendship heartbreak can sting just as much as romantic heartbreak, if not more. We invest our time, trust, and emotions in our friends, believing that they'll always have our backs. But sometimes, friendships fade, betrayals happen, and we're left picking up the pieces of our shattered trust.  Family heartbreak cuts deep. It's the ache of unmet expectations, unresolved conflicts, and shattered illusions of unconditional love. We're taught that family is supposed to be our safe haven, but sometimes, they're the ones who hurt us the most.  I spent most of my 2022 in isolation. I had just changed places and in my new place I had housemates, 3 of us shared a kitchen and a bathroom but had our own bedrooms.  They knew each other but didn't ...

Ah January—the month that comes with a whole symphony of emotions. From the anticipation of matric results to the hustle of university applications, not to mention the funding and accommodation maze. It's like life throws you into a waiting room, and the clock seems to tick in slow motion.  We often hear success stories after the storm has passed, but let's hit pause and dive into the messy, uncertain space where the magic actually happens—the period of waiting for that testimony.  Matric results? Cue the nail-biting and restless nights. University applications? A rollercoaster of emotions as you wait for that acceptance letter. Funding? It's like searching for a needle in a haystack. And don't even get us started on the accommodation hustle—finding a place that won't break the bank and feels like home? It's practically an art.  Going back to school means a dance with uniforms, textbooks, and the whole shebang. It's a mix of nostalgia and the realization tha...

 In this fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in the fear of judgment. There also is an image being portrayed by social media that everyone is successful, which in some cases isn't even true but leaves you feeling like you're not doing enough or you're late. But here's the thing – the magic happens when you push past that fear and embrace the journey of trying. The Fear of the Unknown We get it. The unknown can be downright intimidating. Whether it's learning a new skill, starting a fitness routine, or stepping into a completely unfamiliar field, that fear of the unknown can be paralyzing. But guess what? That uncertainty is the gateway to growth and self-discovery. Let Go of Perfection  Spoiler alert: No one is perfect. Not even that person you admire on social media who seems to have it all together. The truth is, every expert was once a beginner, and they got where they are by being unafraid to stumble, fall, and then get back up again. Let go of the ...